Faith Journey

Ashley's 2nd Birthday

2011-06-01T22:47:00.001-05:00

We celebrated Ashley's 2nd birthday in May with some close friends and family. The kids played outside and then we ate cake and opened gifts. We decided to have a cupcake-themed party. We made a cupcake-shaped cake and cupcakes (of course!). Blowing out the candle on her cake was so fun for her and she also LOVED opening the gifts. She got some really cool gifts--puzzles, books, a big stuffed dog that is as big as she is, a Wigglin' Waterpillar (a water-sprinkler play toy), a gadget box, and a stroller/playpen/high chair for her dolls.

I cannot believe she is 2! She is growing up too fast!

She had a great birthday!

The New Family Addition

2010-10-22T16:17:00.000-05:00

No, it's not a baby, it's a new puppy! No, we were not looking for one (especially so soon after Bailey died), he sort of just fell in our lap. And we could not pass up the opportunity to give a dog a good home.

How it happened: Our Godson Conner and his Mom Heather took care of one of her co-worker's Boxer's and thought they might be able to keep it, but Conner is allergic to him. Then they had given him to her boyfriend's son, but he had to stay outside all the time (these are really not outside dogs) and they were not able to play or spend much time with him. So Heather asked if we might want him to come live with us. After thinking and talking about it for several days, we said yes! He is 14 months old, his name is Roscoe, the kids love him (and he loves the kids), and he is a great dog! Rolo is not so sure about this puppy that is trying to take over his domain, but they are playing together and getting to know one another. We feel like he fits right into our family and will be so happy here!

Yes, we know we are crazy--2 kids under 3, a dog, a new puppy, and most likely a new baby in Dec!! We love our life!

Blessings and sadness

2010-09-15T20:46:00.003-05:00

We recently had a court date for the kids that the court called a status update check. Basically, we were supposed to hear about the progress the parents were making in trying to get their kids to come home to live with them and how the judge felt about it. This was an important hearing because the judge was close to making a decision and the kids would soon be in our care for 1 year, which was the original plan when we got them in Dec 2009. And CPS continued to tell us that the kids would return home and that was their final recommendation. We were soooo worried about it!

We got to court late and practically missed the whole hearing (I'll talk about why later) because our case was called first. After it was over, the court liason asked us if we would adopt the kids if they became available and of course we said yes! She told us that the kids mother (age 21) had a mental assessment performed that reported that she was on a 5th grade educational level and did not have the "nuturing" capability to raise kids. Basically she "didn't know how." And the judge was upset that CPS had left their 3rd baby (now 3 months old) in their home. He wanted the caseworkers to meet about when they would remove that little girl and place it in foster care as well. The consesus from the lawyers was that at the final hearing on Dec 9, the judge would terminate parental rights. We also had a chance to talk to the kids parents, who were understandbly devastated with the outcome of the hearing. They were starting to realize that they might lose their kids for good. They asked us if we would adopt them if that happened, including their new baby girl. Again, we told them yes. We were shocked!! This is not how things were SUPPOSED to go. All of a sudden, adoption (of 3 kids!!) is withing reach! God is so awesome!

Many of you know about our dog Bailey who had a brain tumor removed last year. He has done so well since then. In late July, he began having siezures again and an MRI revealed another, separate unrelated tumor in another area of the brain. This one was not operable and it was very agressively growing. We were not able to leave him alone much after that and on the day of court we had to bring him to the vet to be observed since we were not going to be home. 1 week later on Labor Day, Bailey passed away at our home. We feel like he didn't suffer long and he was surrounded by everyone he loved. He had a great life and was so well-loved, but still we are devastated.

God has now taken one child from us, but is likely giving us 3 to adopt. I have to admit, I question God as to why and how all of the events of this year fit into His plan. The death of my Mom and Bailey and now getting to adopt the kids. Why couldn't she live to see all this? Why did Bailey have to have ANY of the tumors and die? And what is the timing of us getting the kids? And 3?? I know God has a plan, but somehow yet I don't see how it all fits together. And I know I'm not supposed to. And I don't like that!

I guess I'm still on my faith journey!

Major update

2010-08-11T22:08:00.017-05:00

It has been a year and a half since my last blog post. Awful! This post will be an update on the last very eventful year of our life. I'll try to keep it short and sweet!

We became licensed to foster and adopt through Child Protective Services (CPS) in August 2009. On December 14, 2009, we were blessed with the phone call that they had 2 kids that needed to be fostered, 7 month-old Rosemary and 2 year-old Danial. We were so excited! They said that it was only fosterting right now, but you never know what could happen. So we accepted them into our home and are so blessed! We had a wonderful Christmas with them and the grandparents enjoyed spoling them so much!

My Mom spent the week of Christmas with us and we had a great time. She loved the kids and was so thrilled they were with us. She was able to feed Rosemary and give Danial rides on her wheelchair with her. I have some great pics from that week. The week after Christmas, my Mom became ill and was admitted to the hospital with respiratory failure and had to be put on a ventilator. After 4 weeks of illness, she passed away on Jan 28, 2010. This was such a difficult time in my life (still is). I cannot even talk about how devastated I am about it. I spend alot of time questioning God as to why He would allow this to happen NOW. It just doesn't make sense to me. I think about my Mom everyday. But I am so thankful for my friends and family who have been there for me through all this.

It has been a roller coaster of emotions and events the last 7 months. Going from 0 to 2 kids at once is overwhelming, along with everything else going on. My Mom's death; Danial was kicked out of 2 daycares for excessive biting; they both had numerous ear infections, colds, and stomach viruses; Rosemary has been teething; trying to work full-time and then Shane lost his job. But through it all we know we are still blessed and we know God has a plan!

There have been 3 court dates about the kids situation and nothing has been decided yet. The status of the case remains "family re-unification," which means the goal is for them go back home to live with there parents. Our next court date is Sept 2 and we have no idea what will happen then. Our judge is conservative and is making the parents prove that they can care for thier children, and they are having numerous pshychological evalutaions to help determine this. So only time will tell. He could make a decision on that day, or he could stretch it out until December, which he hinted he might do at the last court date. Their mom has also given birth to another little girl since their other children came to live with us. They still have custody of that baby so far. It is worrisome to us that they will have 3 kids to take care when they could not care for 2 kids before.

It is devastating to us to think they will go back to their parents. We have put 7 months into their care and development, worried about there well-being, made numerous sacrifices and put them at the center of our lives, while their parents did nothing but neglect their children. I am emotional when I think they will leave us and never come back, that they will never remember us, and that they will be unaffected by our care. There are no words for this hearbreak.

Rosemary does not appear to be delayed at all at 15 months old. It is so exciting to see what skill she will master next! She runs around the house and stays upright most of the time! She is learning to use a fork to eat with and drinks out of a straw. She is trying to color too! She helps you take off her clothes at bathtime. She has grown to hate diaper changes though and throws the most awful tantrums when she doesn't get what she wants! She is heading into those Terrible Two's a little early (Ugh). But when she is happy she has the most intoxicating smile!

Danial (his parents spelled his name differently) did not really speak when he came to us, not even babbling. His behavior was not so great when he came to us either, and he was aggressive at times. He bit other children, and hit occassionally. This is was his way of expressing himself. He cried most of the time and had night terrors. He could not feed himself (never really had table food) and was still on the bottle. He was basically a 2 year-old baby. He has been going to speech therapy for the last 7 weeks and it has helped tremendously! We are excited to finally hear him talk! He understands things so well and is our little helper around the house! He remembers how you do things the first time and always does it the same the next time. He is a creature of habit and gets very upset if you deviate from the way it should be done. After many time-outs, toy-taking, and teaching he is done with throwing tantrums and now just really wants to please you. He is so tender and loves to cuddle and give kisses. He loves to read books now and that's all he wants to do all day. He is learning his colors and doing very well with it! He eats by himself, dresses himself and he is potty-trained! We are so proud of how far he has come in the last 7 months.

I have started running again now our life has settled down a bit. I am training with Houston Fit for the Austin Half Marathon in Feb 2011. I am realizing how much I missed it and how much I need it for my well-being. I work part-time now and Shane has become a stay-at-home Dad and he is really enjoying it!

Hope this was short and sweet enough for you! I'll update again soon with more pics of the kids!

Sacrifices

2009-03-17T23:41:00.003-05:00

I am learning this week about sacrifice. I thought I knew what it was, but I really didn't. As we are going through the process of adopting, I realize that there are many sacrifices that will have to be made. Lifestyle, freedom, sleep, time, travel, extra money--these are all sacrifices I have thought about, and am willing to make. One thing I did not expect to sacrifice was my job. I once had this situation all worked out. It would go like this: when we got the call that our time had come to adopt a baby, I was going to take a month off, and then come back to work only part-time. The baby would go to Mothers Day Out 2 or 3 days a week. My manager was in agreement and seemed to be fine with this idea. Today I found out differently. While SHE was fine with this situation, our DIRECTOR was not. She told me that if I were to only come back to work part-time, then they would have to post a position for a full-time therapist to replace me, thus leaving me without a job. I felt very betrayed. I have been there 5 years and have really been loyal to them, why couldn't they be loyal to me? I could not understand why they wouldn't allow me this one thing. Now that the shock has worn off, I'm left wondering why have to look for a new (part-time) job.

I have also learned (the hard way) that no matter how hard you plan, God may see it differently. You would think I would know this by now (hello...having a baby--did I not learn anything?), but I forgot it. I should know His plan is better than mine in the end, although it won't be easy getting there.

The last time I was forced to quit a job that I loved (I got laid off), it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm sure this will be too, even if I can't see it right now. But it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make.

Life has been crazy!

2009-03-08T16:31:00.014-05:00

I looked at this today and saw that I had not posted since December!

There are so many things going on in our life lately. In January, our 7-year dog Bailey started having seizures. He had one on a Saturday, then another one 12 days later, and then another one the morning after that. Our vet said we could treat it, or find out the cause. Epilepsy was not as likely because he is an older dog, so that meant it could be a tumor. I had a feeling there was something going on, so we went to the neurologist for an MRI. On Feb 2, he was diagnosed with an agressive, fast-growing brain tumor. We were devastated. Our dogs are a part of our family and mean so much to us. The neurologist told us that without treatment he only had 4-6 weeks to live. We labored over and prayed about the decision to have surgery and radiation. We did not want him to suffer, but so far he had no neurological problems, except the seizures, which were now controlled with medication. We also met with an oncologist, who was very encouraging. He said that because of the location of the tumor (in the front of his brain, close to the surface), the surgeon felt she could get most of it. Then he could have radiation and prolong his life by 2-3 years, maybe longer. And they said his quality of life would still be good, which was our main concern. As we were trying to decide, we took the dogs camping. Bailey had such a great time, you would not have known anything was wrong with him! This really helped us to decide to have the surgery. We wanted him to have more of his life to live and enjoy. So, on Feb 26, Bailey had surgery to remove the tumor. The surgeon was very pleased at how much she was able to get (all of it except the margins that were attached to brain matter), and at how well he did during and after the surgery. The day we brought him home, she said he was doing "fabulous." Here are some pics of what he looked like when we brought him home just 5 days later:

Also, they sent home with us an "art project" that he made while he was in the hospital. They said he got so hungry, that he was trying to eat anything in sight, so here is the pic:

See how evenly spaced the holes are? He is so talented! :)

He is still doing great! Since he is supposed to be on bedrest (yeah right, how do you keep a dog on bedrest?), we sent our 1 1/2 year old dog Rolo to Grandma Donna's house until Bailey gets his staples out. This weekend he seems more like his old self (even before the tumor) and feeling good. I am still making him rest, but I am allowing him more freedom in the backyard. He will start radiation 3 times a week for 7 weeks (20 sessions) after we meet with the oncologist on March 16. We really are so blessed and feel this was the right decision for him.

Most of you know of our unsuccessful journey trying to have a baby and how hard it has been. Several months ago, we made the decision to adopt a child though Child Protective Services. So as all of the medical issues with Bailey were starting, we also began our 11 weeks of parenting classes we needed to become licensed as a foster-adoptive home. We are doing what is called Legal-risk Adoption. This is mainly for infants and small toddlers. It means that they would only place a child in our home that met our criteria only if they were 99% sure they were going to terminate the parental rights. So it could be the following situations: a baby is born and the mother leaves it at the hospital, a mother drops off her baby somewhere because she does not want it, a mother has a baby in the hospital and tests positive for alcohol or drugs, and other situations similar to these. There is alot of paperwork, assessments and homework that has to be done, but we are so excited about it! After the first class, I felt sure this was what God wanted us to do.

We'll keep you updated on Bailey and the adoption process along the way.

Ok, NOW it's snowing!!!

2008-12-10T21:17:00.004-06:00

Yes it is!! And it is a beautiful sight. I love the way the snow crunches under your feet when you walk on the grass!

It's snowing!! Okay, maybe it's just sleeting....

2008-12-10T18:15:00.006-06:00

But it is supposed to turn into snow soon! It IS snowing in parts of Houston right now (my Mom's house), and that is exciting! Makes me want to drive there just to experience it. I absoultely LOVE snow!! My dream is to someday live where it snows at least once or twice a year and lasts more than 24 hrs. But right now, I will settle for some sleet that doesn't quite stick to the ground, I guess. Now I am not an expert on the difference between sleet and snow, but I could SWEAR I see some snowflakes mixed in with the sleet. Maybe it is just my wishful thinking. I am a little crazy about this, because I parked my car in the driveway so I could see it accumulate. And I keep checking outside to see if it is turning to snow.

I hope it keeps up tonight! It feels so much like Christmas with this weather.

Are you ready for some football????

2008-12-04T18:48:00.005-06:00

On Monday we went to see the Texans play the Jaguars in our first Monday Night Football broadcast ever. We won and it was an exciting game! Hopefully our win will get us back on Monday Night Football next year too.

Dun, dun, dun, dun...can't you just hear the music?

Opening of the game

We had seats in the nosebleeds!

This is the ESPN booth.

Brent, Tommy, Ronnie (Shane's Dad), Shane and Tara

Another Half Marathon for me!

2008-11-17T20:22:00.001-06:00

Tara and I drove to San Antonio this past weekend so we could run the Inaugural Rock 'n Roll Half Marathon. It's always an adventure when we travel....

We had procrastinated in getting a hotel room (well, Tara did--she is always in charge of those things because she is so good at it!). So all we could get was a La Quinta WAAAAY on the north side of town. After we went to Expo and picked up our packets, we decided to drive to our hotel to check in before dinner. It is a newer hotel, so the GPS did not have the exact address, but it had something close to it, so we headed in that general direction. We were pretty sure we were on the right road, just not exactly sure where the hotel was! About 15 minutes into our drive, at 5:45 pm, we saw a sign that said "Freeway closed at the next exit, expect delays." They were right about the delay, it was horrendous. It was a parking lot! Tara called the hotel, at 5:58 pm, to see how far away we were, and they said that "on a good day" we had to drive 15 more minutes to get there on this road! Tara asked me if I thought we should cancel the reservation, and I said, without hesitation, "YES!". So she did, with 2 minutes to spare (we had to cancel by 6 pm). So there we were, the night before an inaugural marathon/half marathon with 30,000 entrants, with nowhere to stay (it was absolutely crazy!!). Suprisingly, I was not worried at all. As I said, Tara is very good at this stuff. She went online and started calling hotels, and we got a MAJOR blessing. She found a Comfort Inn Downtown, 2 full beds, free breakfast, 2 blocks from the shuttle stop that would take us to the start line! Wow, she did great!!

I was not as prepared for this race as I should have been, and even though Tara could run this distance in her sleep, she was so awesome to stay with me and get me through it. I had a personal record of almost 1 minute, and it was so much fun running with her! We have some great pics, which I will share after I order them.

Check-out at our hotel was 12:30 (that was considered late check-out!), and we did not even get back to the hotel until 12:45! Thankfully, they gave us until 2 pm. We hurried upstairs, took showers, packed , and were out by 2 pm, amazingly! We went to lunch at our favorite Mexican food restaurant La Margherita in Market Square. Then we met up with a friend of Tara's that also ran the half marathon, much faster than we did. We finally hit the road around 5:30 pm, and got home about 9 pm that night. Ten minutes after Tara left my house, I was in bed asleep. I was exhausted!

I learned a few things from this experience:
1. Book a hotel WAY in advance in the area that you want.
2. I need to train more consistently during the week, so I will be able to do it my sleep too!
3. Running with someone was SOOOO much more fun than running it alone. I want to get FASTER so I can run with Tara in all the races we are in together.
4. Never drive home from another city the same day as the race. It was exhausting and it seemed like we would never get home!
5. Never check your bag with your hotel key, your entire wallet, AND your car keys. (We had a panicked moment when they could not find my bag, that was a little scary!)
6. MOST IMPORTANTLY, bring toilet paper, the porta pottys WILL NOT have any! (A gracious man was handing it out at the start line, I was so thankful!!)

Next races:
January- Aramco Houston Half Marathon
February- AT&T Austin Half Marathon
March- Seabrook Lucky Trails?
April- Angie's half crazy, Clear Lake
May- Heels and Hills, Irving, TX

Wow, I better get training!!

Bad blogger!!

2008-11-01T19:06:00.002-05:00

Yes, ok, I know, I am a self-proclaimed bad blogger! It has been months since I have posted, and I am so sorry. Life is busy and there has been alot going on. I know that is no excuse, but that is mine!

To update you on what has happened recently, well, alot has been going on. In a nutshell, my sister-in-law gave birth to my new nephew Dylan (who I have not seen yet), I have been training for a half marathon (attempting to anyway), evacuated from Ike (oh, the chaos), coping with the stress of my job (which I just resinged from), joined a new Bible study group (still not sure about it...), and Shane has been working 60 hours a week (the money is nice, but I am lonely).

Did you catch all that?

More to come later!

Reunion--again!

2008-07-19T12:58:00.004-05:00

I did not have the chance to post this earlier this week. I wanted to share some pics that were taken last weekend when our friends Regina and Colby were in town. It was so good to see them again. Unfortunately, we don't get to see them that often, but we hope to be seeing them more often in the future!

Tara, Regina, and I

Colby and Shane

Regina and Colby

How do you like my new "Do?"

2008-07-19T12:53:00.004-05:00

Last Wednesday, I had an appointment to get my hair cut. I had been thinking of cutting it short for a couple of weeks, but I wasn't really sure what to do with it. When I talke to Laura, my hairdresser, she said "why don't we do a short bob haircut?" Not knowing really what I wanted, I said "OK." Here is how it turned out:

I think it is a little shorter than I would have liked, but that is the great thing about hair--it grows!!

From disappointment to blessings

2008-07-17T19:31:00.008-05:00

Today I was scheduled for the embryo transfer, but this morning the nurse called to tell me that my embryo had not survived the thaw. I was devastated. I really did not expect it. I was completely ready for it to happen! I had done all the labwork, I had taken all the medicine, and I had mentally prepared myself for this, and now I was not going to get the opportunity to see it through. My first question: WHY God? My second question: Are you really there God? My third question: What do I do now? After I boohooed about it, asked my questions to God, and took a shower, I tried to focus on my blessings for the rest of the day. Here is what I came up with: (bear with me, some of them are a little cheesy)

It is OVER! I know my answer now, rather than later
I get to keep running and training for the half marathon
I get to keep my body shape (although I would like my hips to be a little SMALLER :) )
I no longer need to take my heart medicine (WooHoo!!)
I have a wonderful husband who loves me
Most of my family is relatively healthy (including my dogs)
I have awesome friends in my life who have prayed for me diligently through this
God IS still there

All day as I was listening to my Ipod, every song that played offered me hope. They reminded me that God IS still there, He has never left, and never will leave me. I just have to keep focused on Him and He will tell me what to do next. I know that I will survive.

July 17th

2008-07-04T14:03:00.002-05:00

As I posted before, we are going to use my last embryo this month. I called my doctor's nurse on Monday and she scheduled me for an ultrasound on July 11th. If everything looks good, then the plan is to implant the embryo on July 17th, and then have a blood test on July 31st to see if it worked. I have a mixture of emotions at this point: excited, nervous, calm, peaceful, and anxious. I am not sure how you can have all of those at once, but I am there! At times I am planning for the baby and my life as a new mom, and other times I am thinking about running the Houston half marahton (which I signed up for yesterday, just in case). I do not want to be too hopeful, so I am continuing life as usual. But at the same time, I want to be excited, but no so much that I will devastated if it does not work. I think right now I have a good balance, so let's hope it stays that way! I will keep you posted as we go along!

Weekend away

2008-06-29T14:23:00.004-05:00

Last weekend, we were supposed to have a "weekend away" at the lake. Since that did not work out, we went to our friends Brent and Heather's house in Baytown. We considered it a "weekend away" because it was 30 minutes from where we live. Our Godson Conner got to play with the dogs, Brent cooked a delicious brisket on the grill, and we brought the Wii over and played all night. We had a great time!

Boring days, wild and crazy nights

2008-06-26T21:02:00.005-05:00

A couple of weekends ago, I had the opportunity to go to San Antonio to do some recruiting for my home health agency. We desparately need a physical therapist, but I don't think this trip will bring us any applicants. The conference had less in attendance than it ever has, probably because not many people are travelling right now. Or maybe because they thought about it and who wants to spend a weekend in Texas in the hot month of June? Anyway, I spent my days at the Physical Therapy conference, and my nights.....well.....the pictures should speak for themselves! It was soooo not like me, but we had a great time! My two awesome friends Tara and Carrie went too, and when we get together, you never know what kind of trouble we will get into!! In addition to the shenanigans seen below, we danced at Polly Esther's, a 70s, 80s, 90s dance club, but we made sure there was no evidence of that in the form of pictures (you do NOT want to see my lack of rhythm). It was a great weekend, and it was so nice to get away with the girls. And the best part is that it was mostly on my company's tab! :)

Tara eating ribs at The County Line

It all went down at Durty Nelly's Irish Pub!

Tara's coworker sang with the piano player

We ate at LuLu's Cafe one day for lunch, where they have the biggest cinnamon rolls! (Thanks Courtney!)

Disclaimer: All parties drank responsibly and walked back the their hotels. There was no driving involved in the pictures seen above.

Rolo's First Birthday

2008-06-09T21:26:00.011-05:00

This past weekend we went to Forth Worth for Rolo's first birthday party. Yes, folks, my dog had a birthday party. His foster mom Holly invited all 10 of her foster puppies, and their mom, back to her house for the event! And Bailey got to go, too. Eveyone had a great time!

Are we there yet??

Rolo's Mom Candy

Playing with his brothers!

They got birthday hats!

And birthday cake (no, is wasn't chocolate!)

And party favors!!

Foster mom Holly

So tired from the trip, they laid around for days!

We visited with my brother-in-law Jason, sister-in-law Priya, Priya's family, and my niece Anjali and nephew Deven. They are growing up so fast! Priya is expecting her third child (another boy!!) in September (I can finally post that, now that the secret is out!). We also had a great time catching up with our friends Regina and Colby, who we have not seen in 4 years! We are so thankful to have them in our life again. On Sunday, we went to help out at Shane's parents' rent house in Cleburne, which they are renovating and getting ready to sell.

Overall, it was a great trip and we can't wait to do it again when our new nephew Dillon is born later this year.

Here we go again...

2008-05-27T18:56:00.003-05:00

I wasn't sure that I should blog about this even before it begins, but I decided that my journey to have a child has always been an open book, mainly because I hope that others will benefit from my lessons. So I felt it was the right thing to do. So here goes...

I went to the fertility specialist today, for the first time in over 2 years. We met to talk about implanting the last embryo that is frozen. (Sidebar--for those of you who are not of a medical background, an embryo is formed from an egg and a sperm. Two years ago, we made 3 embryos in a petrie dish, implanted 2, which did not stick, and froze 1). We discussed that the process would start in July (the dr is going on vacation for 4 weeks), as well as the odds of it working. But something was different in that office today than was there 2 years ago. GOD was there. Now don't get me wrong, I knew God was in control back then too, but I think I felt that I needed to be in control more than Him. But today, the whole time I kept thinking, "He is in control--not me, not the doctors, and not advanced medical techniques." If this is supposed to work, it will, plain and simple. The "25% chance" we talked about are human odds, not God's odds. And we all know God's odds are the best.

What I need is prayer to KEEP this attitude throughout the entire process. Because what I WANT to do is search for signs that it will work. Signs that have already crossed my mind, like for the first time since I started working for my employer (4 years), we have short-term disability insurance starting July 1; signs like, I have a foot injury, and being pregnant would let my foot heal for a good 9 months; signs like, I would be due around my 35th birthday, which was a goal for me. But I should not look to these things to tell me it will work this time, because I KNOW my God is in control and only He knows the answer. That is the difference between today and 2 years ago--back then I knew it in my head, and today I know it in my heart.

A weekend in the city

2008-05-04T22:45:00.000-05:00

It is hard to believe that as of Saturday, Shane and I have been married 11 years! Last year, at 10 years, we went camping in Colorado for a week. We had the best time. While this year could not top that (due to that thing about trying to be debt free), we had a great weekend in Houston, all planned by Shane! On Saturday, we first went to the Astros game. It was the perfect night for baseball in Houston: seats right behind home plate, the roof was open (it was BEAUTIFUL weather), and the music minister from the church we got married sang the national anthem! After that, we spent the night at Inn at the Ballpark across the street, which is something we have always talked about doing. We had a nice dinner at the Ballpark Cafe inside the hotel. Our room had an awesome view of downtown and the new park they just finished last month. Today we had breakfast at Le Peep, then we went to REI and bought a new tent (they were having a big sale). We needed a new one, since two years ago Bailey and Hamlet (Tara's Great Dane) decided they were lonely and escaped out of our old one by making a hole in the door. We had been able to use it with just us and Bailey, until adventurous Rolo came along and thought it would be fun to escape through the same hole in the middle of the night 2 weeks ago when we went camping! So we really needed a new tent. This one is also bigger, in case God decides to bless us with another (human) little one! Too bad it is getting too hot to go camping.

I know, it is not extravagant or fancy, but I am a simple girl and not hard to please, and he knew just what would make me happy. As Tara joked to me today when I got home from the trip, "only you would enjoy a trip like that for your anniversary. Shane is a lucky guy." ;)

Boot camp has begun

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This week my marathon training group started Boot Camp. It is kind of a pre-marathon conditioning sessions that is 4 days a week for 6 weeks. Monday was our assessment (which we will do every 3 weeks) and we had to time a 1-mile run/walk, and then do as many sit-ups, seated dips, crunches, and mountain climbers as we could in 1 minute. It was tough! Tonight we started the training and I think tomorrow I will hurt in places I did not know I had. I know that I will be much better off when I am done, but the only thing I kept thinking was that people actually pay for this (and I am glad ours is free)! I was a little worried about it because since I ran the half marathon in January, I have had severe plantar fasciaitis and have not been able to run. But I went to the sports medicine doctor yesterday and they said it was not broken (which I worried about since it really has not felt any better). Then today I went and had my feet casted for custom orthotics, so hopefully that will help too. I am so ready to get back to running. Not running has made me realize how much it is a way for me to spend time to myself, away from the hectic life, and I feel so lost without that. My running shoes miss me! I am so amazed at how much running has gotten in my blood. I certainly never thought I would ever say such a thing!

We finally went camping!

2008-04-20T21:06:00.000-05:00

This weekend we finally got to go camping. I know it is hard to believe it, but we have not been in almost a year, since our 10-year anniversary trip to Colorado last May. We went to Hill Country State Natural Area, which is on the other side of San Antonio. It is a beautiful park with great hiking. It only has composting toilets and no running water, but our rules anyway are "no showers," so that was ok with us. They are some of the cleanest composting toilets I have ever seen! We had to cross a creek to get to our campsite, which was sooo much fun when we got there at 11:30 Friday night! :) Actually, it was awesome and very secluded. It was Rolo's first camping trip and I think he loved it. We went on only a 3-mile hike on Saturday because Shane was not feeling well. Here are some pics. Check out the hilarious picture of Shane when his chair broke! He had only used it in Colorado! I guess you get what you pay for.

My birthday

2008-04-12T21:57:00.000-05:00

Well, today was my birthday and it was a fun day. We spent part of the day at Courtney and Tommy's (friends from church, if you don't know them) house celebrating their son Isaac's one-year birthday. (it is so cool that we share the same birthday!). And then we picked up Shane's parents at the airport as they came back from their trip to NY city. That night I had ice cream and girl talk with Tara and that was a nice way to end my birthday. But I have to tell you about my birthday present. It is not a conventional gift, but it is so me (I am not that hard to please)! I got Guitar Hero 3 for Wii! I know that may seem like a strange gift for a girl, but you have to realize that I am a child of the 80s, and I was into (still am!) the rock bands with the long hair and awesome guitar solos! So for me, this is my way to be that rock star I always wanted to be! I can't wait to nail those solos and beat the game. I may end up better than Slash (Guns 'n Roses guitarist, just in case your not into that)!

My faith journey

2008-04-01T22:17:00.000-05:00

So here it is, my new blog. I must admit, it is a little strange to be writing this, not knowing who exactly will be reading it. But I think it will be a great way to share my journey with others who may not know what my life has been like the past few years.

Shane and I have been married almost 11 years now (it does not seem possible that it has been that long!), and it seems that it gets better everyday. In Sept 2007, we adopted another Boxer, Rolo, who is 9 months old now. Bailey (now 6 years old) and Rolo get along so well! It has been so fun watching them play together and love on each other. In Nov 2007, Shane took a new woodworking job in La Marque and is working many hours of overtime. He is getting the opportunity to travel across the nation in this new job, and that is exciting for him. In the past year, we have really felt God's call to become debt free and are working very hard toward this goal. Shane's job is a blessing to our finances and we are making great progress with our debt. We have been attending a community church in League City and are enjoying our small group bible study.

I have been working for a home health agency for the past 3.5 years and it has been a rocky ride. In the beginning, I was happy seeing patients and trying to provide the best quality care that I could. But after awhile, I became burned out and was also becoming increasingly frustrated with my management team. I contemplated leaving for several months, and then everything changed. My manger resigned and my days became much less stressful. And then I got a promotion to manager just last week! It has been quite a transition, but I am feeling a renewed vision for the agnecy and my career. It was exactly what I needed.

Last year, I starting running. Yes, I said running, and it is fun! It gives me a way to clear my head and reflect on my life. It is time that is only for me and I love it! I ran my first half marathon in Houston in January. I had hurt my foot 2 months before that, so it was hard, but I did it! My foot is still giving me problems, and I have not run consistently since then, but hopefully soon I will be back running. I can't believe it, but I miss it so much!

And now for the question most of you are asking: what about kids? Well, many of you know my struggles with infertility and it has been a long road. We did many tests and procedures over the past 4 years, including in vitro fertilizaiton, all of which have failed. Through this heartbreaking time, I continue to be reminded that my timing is not perfect, but God's is. I have come to have a peace about it and I know that He will give me this desire of my heart when He is ready. That is why I named my blog Keeping the Faith. That is exactly what my journey is all about and I have to be reminded of that daily. I still have one embryo frozen from the procedures and I am praying for God to make it known when the time is right to use it. We are also considering adoption and are praying about that as well.

Well, enough about me for one day! I hope you keep up with my blog and let me know how you are doing as well!

My new blog

2008-03-30T22:33:00.000-05:00

So I am giving in to the blog craze! Only because I think it is a great way to keep up with friends and family. So let me know how you are doing, too!